Hello jLand. I realized my entry the other day was kind of sudden for you all. I also realized after reading it that I wrote down what I was hoping from you, without asking about what you needed. So now I want to do just that. I want to ask you:
What do YOU need?
Is there anything you want to know?
Is there anything you want to ask?
Is there something you want me to write about?
I realize you were hit all the sudden with this news. Do you need time to grieve for awhile? Silly question, huh?
Was I insensitive for coming right out and saying something? I didn't want you to find out suddenly later.
Is there something I can do to make things easier for you all? Probably silly question again, but if you can think of anything, let me know.
Please don't say that I shouldn't even be thinking about you all, that this is about just John and me. Because it's not. John belongs to you all too. That's the way we feel. You have been routing for him for a long time. You love him too. So we all hurt together, and rejoice together, and learn together.
So what can we do for you?